Yana Nedzvetskaya — Russian designer, founder and creative Director of brands and LO JN. Stalker in the fashion world. For the first time in the world Jan presented a collection of clothes under water online. Underwater fashion show HARMAGEDON. PSALM 36:29 – won the world fame.
Clothes Jana nedzvedsky are big names such as: Elena Ksenofontova Svetlana Masterkova, Larisa Verbitskaya, Chulpan Khamatova, Alena Babenko, Anna Chicherova, Yelena Vaenga, Irina Lachin.
Jan, are you focused on career or family?
I will never allow the passenger to change the direction of my destiny.
Of course, career. To that, but personally, I when choosing between family and work always choose work. It’s silly to change a favorite thing at the man. It’s as if I have their destiny changed for… well, for example, random companion in a long distance train. The man is always only a temporary companion in my life.
And I will never allow the passenger to change the direction of my destiny. How would be more happy women if career was in the first place. They wouldn’t stuff myself the head with thoughts about mandatory marriage.
But at some stage of life parents or society programmed girls in diapers, raspashenki, clean husband and the soup is borscht. Perhaps for those who have no talents and abilities, and this is a good solution. Personally, I like the family, the kitchen and the kids were never interesting.
Surely in his youth, the mother never told that we should get married?
Maybe my mom has influenced my choice. First, I rarely saw her at home – she was always working and someone was there in its party organization. That is, it was a business and always busy at work.
Fortunately, I never saw and don’t pester me with marriage. On the contrary, often told me to hurry with this case is not necessary.
But many of my girlfriends mom is constantly yelling how important it is to marry well. It’s interesting that none of them successfully married did not come out. About me forever and curled heaps of admirers.
The fact is that men just have a nose girls ready to clutch them with a death grip and dragged him down the aisle. I always didn’t want the crown as he could. Maybe that’s why and curled? It is not clear why a headlong rush to get married nowadays? What gives? The marriage happens and a regression in the girl’s life, and sometimes ends and a complete degradation as a person and a professional.
It all depends, of course, from the girl herself. My mom has worked all her life in leadership positions, married with two children for the second time and was happy. In addition, the husband could leave the family at any time, and the children leave the nest and make their families. Work and career is the only life that depends on us, and in this case will never be betrayal and disappointment. Much more productive to invest in themselves and their professional education. I think, in our time, the family is a very risky investment. The more you invest no capital, and his only God-given life to you.
And the more you invest in your education, job, career – the more you will receive as a result satisfaction from his life.
By the way, I do not remember that children appreciated mothers-Housewives. Eventually they always ask, ” Mom, you have achieved in your life?”
You are a feminist?
It’s not exactly the right place! No, certainly not a feminist. It is ridiculous to talk about feminism, being married five times and all five quite well. As I like to say – every age women need their husband.
It often happens so that your man gets tired on the road and starts to fall behind, and then completely give up.
If the marriage is fraying and I no longer receive from men is exactly what gets me the most is his mind in some matters, intelligence in science, professionalism in any work I get bored. And to live for… I don’t know why there some women resort to this boring family life for years… I don’t know how. And I don’t want. Each stage in life is a step towards your dream, I want to walk next to the associate with whom you on the way. But it often happens so that your man gets tired on the road and starts to fall behind, and then completely give up. And I never wanted to be the donkey that drags on himself tired husband.)) Let them rest on the sidelines. One. And I on itself – a galloping horse, a burning hut, and so on, through the list. In Russia the horses are jumping around the house constantly. Enough concerns. But… somehow always magically appears next to the one that’s with me breaking into a burning house. Obviously, not extreme like me.
That is, the role of mother is not for you?
Well you have nothing to brag to the world how beautiful silence
Yeah, I don’t feel little sympathy to the family broody, frantic moms in their worst is when the woman begins to live only for the children, while she lowered both mentally and outwardly. Can’t respect insane home cooks who post on social media their soup. It would be better if the book is a clever read for this time – I pound would be more. Me it is incredibly annoying. Well you have nothing to brag to the world how beautifully quiet. To Express themselves through the soup is not my thing.
But I mean it is rabid mothers. However, I always admire moms who, while developing themselves, both professionally and intellectually, and raise their children true citizens of their country, professionals who help children achieve their goals in life, spend time on their education is too important in our lives. This is an incredibly worthy life, worthy of respect.
And yet… fully admit that other women have other priorities. Why not? My opinion is not the ultimate truth.
How to get married successfully, what tips can you give?
Marriage is a serious project in my life, like everything else – career, child birth, etc. But for some reason all girls think that once it goes it goes sometime. If you treat it that way – and that goes as well as ever.
You should be able to sell themselves in this market, as cynical as it may sound
All the girls think that they should love… a kind of bottomless and boundless soul. Honestly – ridiculous! The man loves his eyes, as we all the ears. Among the flocks of gray and nondescript friends he will always choose a bright, stylish and fashionable girl. Always there in the company seretary ducks.
So why exactly do you not become this fashionable and stylish girl? Especially because not a lot of jobs like this become, even if since childhood you mother said that to stand out from the crowd – not nice.
Of course, beautiful. And that is what needs to be done. The market brides we now extensive. But the market grooms… very stingy. If you do not speak any language except Russian. Knowledge of languages rather expands the market of suitors.
And you should be able to sell themselves in this market, as cynical as it may sound. To showmanship, so what’s wrong.
And that means we need to start with his “heavenly” image. You think you so good? Trust me – not good. There will be much more attractive girls who know how to take care of myself and wasting their energy, time and money.
Other things being equal the man will always choose the one that knows how to dress. As I always like to say – I will marry any and easy. But… to live with you to make would never have done it.
To start a project called “Samuelabarber” you must from his appearance and wardrobe. Exactly – go to a stylist to lighten my hair, shake up the wardrobe, throw out all the junk… to run to new life.
Please note, some of you forgot what I started with careers and brains. And it’s a complete lie that men like silly girls. I have these in my life never met.
Are there any other secrets of a successful marriage?
No one influences the opinion of your future husband, his mother and his friends.
The fact is that no man wants to marry a humble little fellow from a family of alcoholics. I take it the extreme. And yet… If you read ads from men who want to marry, they all write the same thing: “Take to wife a girl from a good family”.
And here is how they feature these girls is a separate question. Most often, the clothing, of course.
And here it is necessary very clearly to think over all my first meetings with her beloved and his family and friends. No one influences the opinion of your future husband, his mother and his friends. Costs them sparingly through clenched teeth mumbled that you’re nothing girl, think, kind, modest… what’s your second meeting will be a big question. Really want to get married? Consider every detail, from the first date and before the most important day of your life – wedding. But after the wedding, do not relax, as do 99% of young wives.
But what is surprising – after all, God knows how dress up girls, even on a first date! But a first date is like reconnaissance. Next – trip to the future mother-in-law for a visit – and this is how you win the first battle! First trip in the company of his friends – it is literally Suvorov crossing the Alps.
But if the chosen one is not familiar with you nor your friends, nor with my mother – things are bad. So, you shame to show and bring into their circle. The more urgently it’s time to shake up our bags and throw everything in there for over a year without movement. Even this situation is fixable.
Buy new things competently, capsules, in a proportion of 70% top and 30% bottom, not counting the dresses.
Never dress bright and defiant, on the verge of vulgarity, for that kind of sleep, but rarely take married.
Don’t hang about the shops and choose the one where you will make a true lady, and not another girl in the style of “the in a Board the guy.” I mean jeans and stretched tricotage.
Want to get married – get married all the jeans in the trash. Well… or zashvyrnut them away on the mezzanine – who they are.
As well as ugg boots, jackets and trousers with low valve – all men hate to tooth grinding. All this can be left for later, when he was already in trouble up to your ears.
Dress up wisely, if you really want to get married, but don’t know how to do it.
And never dress bright and defiant, on the verge of vulgarity, for that kind of sleep, but rarely take married. Also men hate the style of “crazy town” is when you are wearing items of young designers – Cooley shapeless, baggy pants, oversized coats, oversized flowers in the most awkward places, asymmetrical dresses transformers and so on. Such clothes are good only for the podium, but not for life. To dress in this style is a direct path to eternal loneliness))). Such things can afford acting, style, photographers, designers – creative people. But who told you that they successfully get married? Why? Because almost all men in Russia do not understand anything in fashion. And just in case you don’t want to look ridiculous next to such here advanced fashionista. They reinsurers. So… dress up wisely, if you really want to get married, but don’t know how to do it.
Your motto is “Improving the personal lives of millions” – examples?
For 27 years already and I can not count how many girls got married only because of my clothes, including my staff. Just recently got married store Manager LO in Voronezh.
I wrote that only because I came to work in LO, and was dressed only in our clothes.
Quite often in our stores LO, when the guy saw the girl in our dress at the fitting, – sweeps in the jewellery to buy a ring and falls to his knees right in the store. So I have full right slogan. When enthusiastic and grateful letters exceeded one hundred thousand, and the number of buyers in the five million – I gave up and wrote openly that my clothes enhance the person’s life – why hide such a distinct advantage?)
How you can look elegant and budget?
Simple. You do not need to wander around the markets and shops with questionable mass brands. A couple of times I bought in such shops t-shirt for playing tennis. After the first wash this thing always screws around the waist. Moreover, dressing in such stores, you will never be able to raise their social status, and even more will never “look like a million.” Massive clothes brands you can see for miles.
Moreover, personally, I’m not entering the store, at the window know the country of origin of clothing.
Want to get married? Choose small shops with stylish clothes, an average price category, where the circulation of the same model does not exceed 500 units. In these shops, as elsewhere, there are sales.
Often, these boutique shops have their online stores that are constantly interesting promotions, sales and discounts on selected items. These online stores guarantee you good quality and excellent things. And, by the way, there can for half the price in the season to catch the stunningly beautiful things.
Do not rush on the cheap. Cheap clothes – like fast food – perfect – smells good, looks appetizing. Ate – mouth filth and eternal sense of guilt that I got this caloric chaos.
Especially big disappointment awaits, as a rule, girls in huge online stores where you promise famous brands. We must remember that miracles do not happen. In the best case, you get a good copy. In the worst – illiquid five years ago, which nobody wants.
My advice – don’t go shopping often. Do not spray money on garbage clothes – it will not give you any pleasure, and certainly not closer to marriage. Remember that exactly the same attire buy hundreds of thousands of others like you, girls. And in the consumer goods still no girl looked stunning.
Learn how to dress unique. Believe me, this can be done approximately for the same money that you throw to buy mass things. Reduce the number and go to quality. It will be justified.
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