Narcissism and rudeness will play a bad role.
Always criticize yourself and others, babbling and using diminutive words, pour out an endless stream of complaints and other “charms”. Welcome to a tour of things that no man will forgive you at the meeting.
Narcissism
It is quite normal that you are proud and satisfied with what you have achieved or how you look. However, everything has its limits and, if, at the beggining you only talk about yourself, you are poisoning your listener. If you are relying on a potential relationship in the future, your conversation and listening skills must have a balance.
Management or a dominant personality
You try to control and decide everything? All from time to time, everyone will appreciate a break from responsibility, but if you regularly determine what will be the program of your meetings and keep its course firmly in their hands, the more likely you will push your potential partner to escape. Your only chance is an option when you will be able to meet a submissive man who seeks the dominant woman.
Yes / no
Perhaps you belong to the introverted personalities, which is not particularly advertise, and are reluctant to draw attention to themselves. However, conversation style answers with one word “Yes/no”, in fact, is not attractive, and the idea is to impress the Prince of her dreams with the depth of his glance is a very risky plan. Competent adult males usually want to know at least several points of view of their potential second halves.
Minor social intelligence
You can have the figure of a supermodel, innocent blue eyes and long blonde hair, but if your social intelligence is negative the value, your perfect appearance will not save you. Few men will be delighted with the company of a woman who quarrels with each serving as a waiter. Do not cause enthusiasm, but also long phone calls during the meeting.
Impoliteness
Maybe you rely on their honesty, but do not confuse sincerity with rudeness and brutality. If you act like you are annoying all around, very soon you will begin to irritate and your partner.
The use of diminutive words
“Hey, how are you today? You have also today was a interesting day?”. It’s hard to say why some women are reduced to a similar manner to say, but rest assured that it is not, neither sexual nor innocent nor cute. Using these “buzzwords”, you look at least as weak-minded.
Eternal complaints
Boss at work is bothering you, your friend is acting weird, you can’t get out from the cold, your family is just awful, and the food that you brought, is impossible. And next time, can the list of your complaints include the, now former, friend.
High self-criticism
He appreciated your manner of dress or hairstyle? Then you should immediately assure him that he is mistaken, and that the clothes you are wearing for a hundred years, and you are long overdue to the hairdresser. He expressed excitement about what you managed to achieve in life? Immediately reduce all the things that you could be proud of. Nothing in the future will not encourage him to make you a compliment.
