May not be unimportant all that relates to personal life and personal happiness.
We used to think that love and trust is the main condition of happy families.
And if they are, no problems in the bed will not occur. However, in the two relations is another important variable sexual Constitution, that is, natural sexual activity of the person.
Often you can also hear about what the partners are sexually incompatible.
Is there really this mythical incompatibility between a man and a woman?..
Psychological incompatibility
The very real situation of life, when the overestimated requirements to the partner are not implemented. There are two possible problems: the woman is silently waiting for what a loving man he will guess what she wants or even anticipates making something beautiful. This woman forgets that the man is not a tool to meet its needs, but a living person who can not guess the mind. A similar situation is observed as the incompatibility is fundamentally wrong, and fix all is simple enough – take the initiative, explain what you want and what not, make sure that it understood you correctly.
The second variant: the husband worried that will not be able to satisfy his wife, while ill-timed and spoken word, and sometimes just a look or a sigh, can not only paralyze, but to strengthen this fear. In this situation, not infrequently, men are surprisingly sensitive capture not just hints, but even the head-turning favorite. So the problem is not growing like a snowball, talk to your husband, reassure him, let him have understanding on your part, but in any case not imitate satisfaction – so you can only aggravate the situation.
Usually this kind of “incompatibility” does not affect the ability to conceive partners.
All this, of course, incompatibility can not be named. If the problems of the psychological plan it is impossible to decide between them, you should ask for help from psychologist.
Not the same biorhythms
The level of activity, including sexual, is regulated by hormones, development of which is not always at the same level. At the same time, bursts of calm may not be the same time – familiar to many situation: in the evening very sleepy, and my husband has just had an attack of love.
A mismatch of biorhythms, actually, not-so-complex problem – or rather no problem. Often do not match even they, and schedule and living conditions – someone needs every day to get up early and go to work, and who is willing to not sleep till morning, difficult to clear my head from the household or industrial issues, whatever may hinder the understanding in bed.
Will help in this situation, the rejection of stereotypes – who said love should be engaged only in bed, only at night or in the morning? Try to find a time when your biorhythms are close to the maximum, don’t fight with her or his nature, and conformed. It is important that the calibration process was mutual, not unilateral.
Physiological incompatibility
Our body is amazingly plastic and can adapt to many things. Remember how it changes during pregnancy and after the birth of the child is returned to almost its original state.
Sexologists claim – physiological incompatibility at the level of the size of sexual organs does not occur. Most often the problem is psychological.
However, the real “incompatibility” exists in nature, however, reproduction say that this happens rarely. It’s kind of “allergic reaction” of the female body on sperm particular man, when cervical fluid have antibodies to it. In this case, fertilization may not occur because male sex cells are killed before reaching the egg. At the same time on sexual desire in partners is not affected, if not to take into account the disturbance factor for infertility.
This problem has been called the immunological incompatibility or cervical factor infertility. Treatment is not always lead to the desired result, as a rule, it is recommended the couple to use the method of intrauterine insemination.
