Experts explained what kind of thoughts and opinions make a person lonely.
You do not let people into your heart.
Perhaps after a bad experience and broken heart you built a wall around it, and then can blame you. Every song that is not about mad love – clearly about a broken heart. But to actually let someone know you have to be vulnerable, that is, to destroy all those walls and let someone in your world, at least to look back through the window.
You play the game “what if…”.
What if he doesn’t like me as he told me? What if we still lose? What if he would cheat on me? Stop it right now. You can’t see into the future, because of the hysterical didn’t help anything. Do any of these scenarios, no real reason, you just looking for an excuse not to try to be happy with someone.
You’re running from possibilities.
You push people away before they have an opportunity to leave. Or you run for just a relationship taking a serious turn. This is the first line of defense, you remain at a safe distance from anything that could be a real and meaningful. But is it possible to be happy?
You are afraid of pain.
You always wanted to be a strong woman, to not show weakness, what it means to avoid situations in which you can hurt. Sounds great, until you realize that avoiding these situations, you lose the ability to be happy, and it’ll still hurt. Hurt when he starts Dating another, just because you ran away from it. So if you are still going to hurt, why not first to experience happiness, even if it’s temporary?
You don’t believe in love.
Most likely, you just haven’t met the right person, because to prevent yourself from falling in love truly impossible. And when you fall, you will believe in love, although it may continue to deny it. Or you are going to run from my feelings. Okay, just don’t call it love. But try. She’s just gorgeous.
