For young children all of life flows in the game, so why not turn work into a game?
What usually the first responsibilities of the child? To pick up your toys, bring dad’s Slippers, newspaper, program.
But if you wear kids love, then remove them to make incredibly difficult. Often does not help even a story about the tragic experiences of the bears, who dropped to lie on the floor. So we have parents where affection, where threats to force their children to make the first feats of labor.
Most interesting is that the child is 4-5 years, which cannot be forced to remove the toys will be very willing to vacuum or sweep, that is, to do what he is doing is not allowed. Maybe he feels more grown-up? So why not to play?
Maybe kids need more praise when they do something useful. However, the smart kids quickly figure out how to answer my mother’s or grandmother’s constant admonitions: “But you’re a good boy/girl!” “I don’t want to be good!” And what can you do?
The worst – not that they will not learn to remove, and that they have not formed the concept of “need” – “to do, even if I don’t want”. Over time, this “reluctance” can grow into a categorical General unwillingness to do anything. How many of these overage blockheads can now see that “reluctance” to go to school and then get a profession. In the end, they have the vaguest idea of what the work is and how to earn money, but parents continue to pull on his spine.
