Useful tips for women on how to survive the betrayal of her beloved husband.
To predict who will change and who is not, impossible: most often the person himself does not expect this.
“For that you can thank the man who cheated on you? For a lot of things. Now, for example, you can start writing country songs or rejoice that his CDs with progressive rock will be the problem of another woman. And, you can be grateful that you no longer have to rummage in his pockets, standing at night in a dark corridor and heard the assurances that the sales conference was no communication,” says the writer FLIC Everett.
No longer do you have to rummage in his pockets, standing at night in a dark corridor
She also adds: although women who changed, rarely think about it, the man, betraying their trust, makes them better. “According to a recent study, women who have experienced the betrayal of a sexual nature, in the future more careful in the choice of partners and are not inclined to lower their standards,” explains the author.
Besides, she noted that “winning” rival, by contrast, is in a relationship with a man, a fact proven unreliability. “So in an evolutionary sense, your opponent desperately clinging to a branch, which is already bursting,” recalls the writer.
“Our conclusion is that the woman who “loses” your mate for another woman, will be forced to go through a period of grief and feelings of betrayal, but more intelligently react to the choice of partner in the future”, the author quotes the head of research Dr. Craig Morris – man.
Of course, she acknowledges that for several reasons, women who changed, not really want to be happy – first and foremost because no one expects betrayal from a loved one. Yes, and to predict who will change and who is not, impossible: most often the person himself does not expect this.
“Treason doesn’t look like a deal in which the participants shake hands, and the voice in the background proclaims: “to start the procedure of betrayal!”, they are the result of thousands of minor reasons – and the result of the human ability to continue to lie to yourself, until it’s too late” – says the author.
“I didn’t want” probably the most-worn phrase in the world, but what is surprising is that it is differently true. So the idea that a woman who survived the betrayal, will be able to mysteriously identify a man who doesn’t cheat on her, according to the author, illogical.
“But the real problem of this study is not in questionable conclusions “you can do it, girlfriend!” in the style of Beyonce. The problem is that they don’t even consider to ask, how do you feel men who changed. Does they have the same supernatural flair?” – asks the author.
“Whatever we find out in the result of these studies, in fact about any reasonable choice of partner when it comes to love, however. All you can do is keep my fingers crossed for luck and hope for the best,” concluded Everett.
